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A Critical Resource At a Vulnerable Time


DivorceSource is the country's first and only consulting firm specializing in the practical issues of divorce.  It was founded in 1995.  My own divorce from a prominent matrimonial attorney in New York City, convinced me that people lacked knowledge about the process.  They needed practical and personalized help to begin.  That's why I developed an extensive database of resources and information and began to offer one-on-one consultations.

My program gives you information and methods to make rational decisions during an especially vulnerable time.  Divorce is difficult and the decisions you will make will impact your life.  I am here to help guide you every step of the way.

- Margery Rubin, President

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Friends and family members lack appropriate experience to guide you.  In fact, they may make matters worse.  Lawyers  , the legal system and courts make matters more confusing.  Your partner will be informed and ready; you should be, too.

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If breaking up is hard to do, divorce is ten times worse. It can be terrifying to even think about getting a divorce, let alone figuring out how to pursue one. That is why divorce consultant Margery Rubin has created this unique guide to help women navigate the process and empower them with vital information that their lawyers might not tell them. Offering practical advice for an impractical and emotional time, Rubin uses her expertise to answer 125 essential questions for staying afloat during your divorce, including:

  • How do I pay for a lawyer if I have no income?
  • If I leave the house voluntarily, can I move back in?
  • How do you know if you need a parenting coordinator?
  • I haven't worked since before I got married... can I get lifetime support?
  • My husband has filed for bankruptcy. Does this affect his child support obligations?

With answers you won't get anywhere else, What Your Divorce Lawyer May Not Tell You is an invaluable source of step-by-step advice on everything you'll need to survive your marriage's end... and get on with the rest of your life.


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